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	<title>Comments on: Be Forgiving &#8211; Lessons from my dad</title>
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		<title>By: Anuj</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 20:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very very moving blog Sri - brings tears to my eyes! Thanks for sharing this story with its great &quot;value point&quot;.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;About Sabareesan&#039;s comments: While I agree with what you have stated entirely, it is not applicable to this case. The Uncle did not give direct advise - he made a sneering remark about this young lad (Mr. K) to someone else. That is not like &quot;intended critique&quot; for sure... But whatever, it did very well to challenge Mr. K to a level higher than what his family&#039;s plight at the times drove him to.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;On the side -&lt;br&gt;My father too underwent hardships to make a climb in life (we are again talking of the 40&#039;s here). He traveled to Kanpur to get a break in life in the &quot;Chemical Industry&quot; after a hard-earned honors degree in Chemistry from Central College-Bangalore. After years of toiling as an apprentice and not getting a useful job assignment at Tata Chemicals, he returned back to Mysore with a lot of gritty experience and not much money. He settled for a career in education - Lecturer and so on. He realized his dream of doing practical work at Industry after his retirement, when he worked as a Lab Chemist for an aromatic industry in Mysore, refining extraction of pure Vanilla starting off from Benzene! He got a pittance at that job, but he needed it all the same to sustain the household, so he did it. He used to cycle for 12 kms up and then again down, for this job, at the age of 58. He was an honest and proud man - tough life for my mom with him, but I am sure she was mighty proud of what he achieved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very very moving blog Sri &#8211; brings tears to my eyes! Thanks for sharing this story with its great &#8220;value point&#8221;.</p>
<p>About Sabareesan&#39;s comments: While I agree with what you have stated entirely, it is not applicable to this case. The Uncle did not give direct advise &#8211; he made a sneering remark about this young lad (Mr. K) to someone else. That is not like &#8220;intended critique&#8221; for sure&#8230; But whatever, it did very well to challenge Mr. K to a level higher than what his family&#39;s plight at the times drove him to.</p>
<p>On the side -<br />My father too underwent hardships to make a climb in life (we are again talking of the 40&#39;s here). He traveled to Kanpur to get a break in life in the &#8220;Chemical Industry&#8221; after a hard-earned honors degree in Chemistry from Central College-Bangalore. After years of toiling as an apprentice and not getting a useful job assignment at Tata Chemicals, he returned back to Mysore with a lot of gritty experience and not much money. He settled for a career in education &#8211; Lecturer and so on. He realized his dream of doing practical work at Industry after his retirement, when he worked as a Lab Chemist for an aromatic industry in Mysore, refining extraction of pure Vanilla starting off from Benzene! He got a pittance at that job, but he needed it all the same to sustain the household, so he did it. He used to cycle for 12 kms up and then again down, for this job, at the age of 58. He was an honest and proud man &#8211; tough life for my mom with him, but I am sure she was mighty proud of what he achieved.</p>
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		<title>By: ksrikrishna</title>
		<link>http://ksrikrishna.com/2010/03/be-forgiving-lessons-from-my-dad.html/comment-page-1#comment-487</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:14:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The issue is rarely the well intended critique (or critic) but the haughty, I-know-best or I&#039;m-too-good-for-you types that are hard to deal with. And we wouldn&#039;t be human, if we at times we did not react viscerally. Whether a graduate advisor/famous professor or a bombastic uncle and the occasional snooty social queen - we seem to encounter these types repeatedly - possibly sent to improve us by testing our patience :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The issue is rarely the well intended critique (or critic) but the haughty, I-know-best or I&#39;m-too-good-for-you types that are hard to deal with. And we wouldn&#39;t be human, if we at times we did not react viscerally. Whether a graduate advisor/famous professor or a bombastic uncle and the occasional snooty social queen &#8211; we seem to encounter these types repeatedly &#8211; possibly sent to improve us by testing our patience <img src='http://ksrikrishna.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sabareesan</title>
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		<dc:creator>sabareesan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Directly from the heart, my past experience has been that it is better to thank persons who criticise you to do better rather than trust people with sugar coated words.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Directly from the heart, my past experience has been that it is better to thank persons who criticise you to do better rather than trust people with sugar coated words.</p>
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